God don't force people to commit to Him.. If love has to be forced, it's not even love anymore.. He will bless those with the willing heart.. WILLING HEART!! If u never put in your best in meeting Him, if you never care about that, what can He do? He dun wanna force you.. He can use other christians/your brothers and sisters to tell you, but if you alone don't move, how can you grow? Put in your best, God will do the rest...Put in effort alright? when u love someone, you will naturally spend more time with that person.. Do you love God?