when u reflect on the past, why things happen, then u will realise everything happen for good.. i dunno how to put it.. i always ask, why this this this happen when the situation occurs.. i really dun understand at that point of time, i was even very frustrated, angry, disappointed at the situation.. but after some time later, when this particular incident appear, i will come to realise that it happen for good.. God has His plan.. He holds the best plan, for He is the creator of the heaven and the earth, and creator of you and me! i like to spend time alone most of the time, partly because i dun really like to hang out nowadays.. and also because when i am alone, other than sleeping all those, i think a lot.. (may be good, may be bad) it is usually during these times, i will realise a lot of things.. this world is just too hectic.. there was a few times, where i was working.. rushing here, rushing there, super busy.. then God just told me.. take a step back, slow down.. ok.. this thing that God told me is not the u shld slowly walk, slow in providing the services.. but rather.. slow down! like take time off to reflect.. take time off to enjoy what's in store for u.. Do u realise that it's only when u really slow down, u will get to realise the beuaty of the sceneries, the beauty of everything? for me, it is so.. so from now on, i will reflect daily.. spend time lying on that green pastures, spend time with God, and u will get to know more things, like why they happen in ur life, at that particular point of time..